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Pause, Celebrate, Continue: The Gift of Lag B’Omer

May 16, 2025

By Rabbi Ariel Platt

Today is Lag B’Omer, the 33rd day of the Omer—a minor Jewish holiday that brings a spark of light and joy right in the middle of a traditionally solemn journey.

The Omer is a 49-day period between Passover and Shavuot, a time often marked by semi-mourning. For many, this includes refraining from weddings, music, and even haircuts. But Lag B’Omer is the joyful exception—a 24-hour pause for celebration, connection, and fun.

In many ways, Lag B’Omer is like that unexpected but welcome detour you see on a long road trip—a roadside festival, amusement park, or scenic overlook that invites you to stop, breathe, and enjoy the moment before continuing onward. It reminds us that joy isn’t a distraction from our goals—it’s a vital part of the journey itself.

While the origins of Lag B’Omer are varied and a bit mysterious, there are several meaningful explanations:

  • The Talmud teaches that on this day, a plague that killed thousands of Rabbi Akiva’s students came to an end.

  • Some traditions commemorate a military victory by Bar Kochba’s forces in 132 C.E.

  • Others honor Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai, a student of Rabbi Akiva and the author of the mystical Zohar, who is said to have passed away on this day, leaving behind a legacy of spiritual light.

Customs include bonfires, picnics, weddings, haircuts, and playful games with bows and arrows. It’s a day filled with warmth, nature, and togetherness.

As we continue our own journeys—personal, professional, and communal—Lag B’Omer invites us to find joy even in the midst of effort and reflection. It teaches us to notice the good, to take time to celebrate progress, and to share moments of light with those around us.

So, whether you take a walk in the sunshine, connect with a colleague, or simply pause for a moment of gratitude, let this day be your joyful detour. Lag B’Omer is a reminder that joy isn’t separate from the journey. It is the journey.

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